Bleak about Marriage

Recently i keep having thoughts about not getting married after all.
Not having a baby not having a family.
What does Marriage means?
A union of 2 person? or A union of 2 families?
I'm tired of people asking me when is my turn, when u gonna get married or when u gonna have a baby. Ask due to concern or just because thats the only thing ppl ask to start a conversation?
To me a union means a bigger family more compromising to each other families more get together more visiting.
Is it jus me? If ur partner feel otherwise what does it mean?
I dread to think of what is gonna happen.
Promise is a promise no longer stands way back....
I no longer believe in it
Happily ever after happen only in fairy tale